No One To Ask

I have been dealing with the extra weight of my husbands ptsd for about 3 years now. For one reason or another at first I assumed he was just turning into a huge ahole and that our economic circumstances made him depressed. He has since been treated for ptsd but still not officially diagnosed. He is a combat vet and I am doing my best to emotionally support him. I have so many questions about how to help, what I m doing wrong (to set him off) , if certain things are normal...I cant hold it... No One To Ask
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