Buddhism

I m wondering if others have used the principles of Buddhism as a part of their healing. I think I picked up my first book on Buddhism about 8 or 9 years ago. I only got so far into the book before it maddened me by making a statement along the lines of how those who are abused shouldn t be mad at their abusers because it was in their karma(?) to do so. I m not sure if I have that exactly right, but the essence of the statement was that abuse victims shouldn t hold their abusers... Buddhism
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