Relapse In Recovery?

Hey all, Firstly, sorry this is a long one. My wife destroyed the world as I know it on the 7th feb, and on the 8th August she absolutely tore apart what was left. Where to start.... I am a 1 in 6 male. I was molested by my grandfather as a child, and groomed and abused with another teenager. I met my wife in 1993, and we married in 1996, in sept 1997 we moved in to our family home. My wife has never let go of being bullied at school, nor dealt with it, any time she is in a stressful... She Crushed My World, And Now Is Trying To Destroy What Is Left
https://www.myptsd.com/c/threads/relapse-in-recovery.54649/