Is She Faking It?

For those of you who have reached acceptance of your trauma - I m after some input on what that was like... Does it come as a gradual thing, where you look back and one day realise, "Hey, I ve actually accepted my trauma for what it was already - who knew!?" Or was it more like a sudden Bam! moment were it kinda of all hit you at once one day? And how the hell does one cope with the Bam, or is it easy? And leading up to that point, could you see in retrospect that maybe there d been one... Acceptance
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