S and I have a history of me lending/giving him money. It happened several times when we were involved for about a year seven years ago, and it s now the second time he needs money (we ve been back together since June). It s very difficult for him to ask for help because of the Shame he feels. I am the only one willing/able to help him financially. I love him and want to do anything I can for him, but giving him more money so he can do the same thing over and over and expect different... How Do I Know If It s A Valid Boundary To Set?
https://www.myptsd.com/c/threads/fantasy-masturbation-and-trauma.66350/
No comments:
Post a Comment