Wife Resists Trying To Understand

My wife behaves in a way and says things to me regularly that diminish my self-esteem, then I feel really ill and I ll take ages to recover. I ll pull myself back up again with lots of effort but the next time she is angry she will do the same things. If I ask for a change or express that my needs are not being met, she verbally punishes me. For years, I have asked her to learn a bit about CPTSD to understand what I live with. She has not done this. Why would she not do this if she loves... Wife Resists Trying To Understand
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